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Urgently Needed - तुरंत आवश्यकता है

*तुरंत आवश्यकता है*

(1) *एक इलेक्ट्रिशियन*: जो ऐसे दो व्यक्तियों के बीच कनेक्शन कर सके जिनकी आपस में बातचीत बन्द है।

(2) *एक ऑप्टिशियन*: जो लोगों की दृष्टि के साथ दृष्टिकोण में भी सुधार कर सके।

(3) *एक चित्रकार*: जो हर व्यक्ति के चेहरे पर मुस्कान की रेखा खींच सके।

(4) *एक राज मिस्त्री*: जो दो पड़ोसियों के बीच पुल बनाने में सक्षम हो।

(5) *एक माली*: जो अच्छे विचारों का रोपण करना जानता हो।

(6) *एक प्लम्बर*: जो टूटे हुए रिश्तों को जोड़ सके।

(7) *एक वैज्ञानिक*: जो दो व्यक्तियों के बीच ईगो का इलाज खोज सके।

और सबसे महत्वपूर्ण:
(8) *एक👆🏻शिक्षक*: जो एक दूसरे के साथ विचारों का सही आदान प्रदान करना सिखा सके।

*आज इन सभी की🌍समाज को अत्यन्त आवश्यकता है।*. 




Educated - Whom, then, do We call educated?

 First, those who manage well the circumstances which they encounter day by day; and those who can judge situations appropriately as they arise and rarely miss the suitable course of action.

Next, those who are honorable in their dealings with all men, bearing easily what is unpleasant or offensive in others, and being as reasonable with their associates as is humanly possible.

Furthermore, those who hold their pleasures always under control and are not unduly overcome by their misfortunes, bearing up under them bravely and in a manner worthy of our common nature.

Most important of all, those who are not spoiled by their successes, who do not desert their true selves, but hold their ground steadfastly as wise and sober-minded men, rejoicing no more in the good things that have come to them through chance than in those which through their own nature and intelligence are theirs since birth.

Those who have a character which is in accord, not with one of these things, but with all of them these are educated--possessed of all the virtues.
--Socrates (47~399 B.C.)

 In a nutshell, educated persons are those who can choose wisely and courageously under any circumstances. If they have the ability to choose between wisdom and foolishness, between good and bad, between virtuousness and vulgarities, regardless of the academic degrees they have, then they are educated.

An expert is someone who knows all the answers if you ask the right questions. 



Make A Habit Of Doing It Now - 2

When I Become a Big Boy

This is like the little boy who says when I become a big boy, I will do this and this and I will be happy. And when he becomes a big boy he says, when I finish college and do this and this and I will be happy. And when he finishes college he says when I get my first job and do this and this I will be happy. And when he gets his first job he says when I get married and do this and this and then I will be happy. And when he gets married he says when the kids get out of school and I do this and this I will be I happy. And when the kids get out of school, he says when I retire and do this and this, I will be happy. And when he retires what does he see? He sees life has just gone by in front of his eyes.

* "Creed for Optimists" by Christian D. Larsen, in The Best of ... Bits Pieces, Economics Press, Fairfield, NJ, 1994, p. 3.

Some people practice procrastination by hiding behind high sounding words, saying "I'm analyzing" and six months later they are still analyzing. What they don't realize is that they are suffering from a disease called, "Paralysis of Analysis" and they will never succeed.

Then there is another breed of people who procrastinate by saying "I'm getting ready" and a month later they are still getting ready and six months later they are still getting ready. What they don't realize is they are suffering from a disease called "Excusitis." They keep making excuses.

Life is not a dress rehearsal. I don't care what philosophy you believe in--we have got only one shot at this game called life. The stakes are too high. The stakes are the future generations.

What time is it and where are we? The answer is now and we are here. Let's make the best of now and utilize the present to the fullest. The message is not that we don't need to plan for the future. The message is that we do need to plan for the future. If we utilize our present to its fullest, we are sowing the seeds for a better future automatically, aren't we?

If you want to build a positive attitude, learn the phrase, "do it now" and stop the habit of procrastination. The saddest words in life are:

♦ "It might have been."
♦ "I should have."  
♦ "I could have."
♦ "I wish I had."
♦ "If only I had given a little extra."

Never leave till tomorrow which you can do today. --Benjamin Franklin 

I am sure all winners wanted to be procrastinators but never got around to it.
When people say, "I will do it one of these days," you can be sure it means none of these days.

Some people keep waiting for all lights to turn green before they leave home. That will never happen and they fail even before they start. That is sad.

Stop procrastinating: Isn't it time that we put off putting things off?

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Develop an Attitude of Gratitude


Count your blessings, not your troubles. Take time to smell the roses. It is not uncommon to hear that someone, because of an accident or illness, became blind or paralyzed but won a million dollars in settlement. How many of us would like to trade places with that person? Not many. We are so focused on complaining about things we don't have that we lose sight of the things we have. There is a lot to be thankful for.

When I say count your blessings, not your troubles, the message is not to become complacent. If complacence was the message you got, then I would be guilty of faulty communication and you of selective listening.


Make a Habit of Doing It Now


We have all procrastinated at some time in our lives. I know I have, only to have regretted it later. Procrastination leads to a negative attitude.

The habit of procrastination fatigues you more than the effort it takes to do it. A completed task is fulfilling and energizing; an incomplete task drains energy like a leak from a tank. If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into the habit of living in the present and doing it now.


He slept beneath the moon
He basked beneath the sun
He lived a life of going to do
and died with nothing done.
--James Albery



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